Volume 1, ISSUE 1, (October

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Volume 1, ISSUE 1, (October
Volume 1, ISSUE 1, (October - December, 2013)
[ISSN: 2348 - 2605]
bfxI dy afDfr qy mnuwKI jIvn df aslI arQ
aqy asUl
zfw[ rynUM bflf
srkfrI kfwlj,pMjfbI ivBfg, CwCrolI-135103
Xmunfngr(hirafxf)
sSq-mhfqmF, irsLI-munI dunIaF ivc aFAuNdy rhy, afpo afpxy AupdysL dy gey qy mfilk
dy rSg ivc rSg ky, Aus dI msqI dI lwjLq ivc JUm-JUm ky Aus dI hkIkq dy rfjL suxf
gey. iensfn bFsurI nUM sux ky kyvl Aus bFsurI nUM vjfx vflf nhIN ho skdf. Aus dI
aslI KusLI qy rs bFsurI dy vjfx nfl hI iml skdf hY. ielm aml qoN rihq iksy kMm
df nhIN.1
duwK qoN bcx leI qy prm suwK dy pRfpq krn leI keI lok aSDfDuSD isr qoV koisLsL
krdy hn, pr koeI pRfpqI huMdI njLr nhIN aFvdI. smJdfr afdmI pursLfrQ dy nflnfl TIk insLfny nUM afpxy sfhmxy rwKdf hY. insLfnf TIk hox krky QoVIH imhnq vI
PLjLUl nhIN jFdI. ies leI iksy afdrsL dI pRfpqI leI kyvl pursLfrQ df krnf hI
kfPLI nhIN, Aus dy nfl insLfnf qy lksL dy TIk hox dI loV hY. Bgq kbIr dI bfxI ivc
ijvyN ikhf hY:vsqU khIN ZUMZY khIN ikh ibD afvY hfQ.
iensfn dy aMdr prmfqmF ny kuJ ivsLysL gux pfey hn qy AuhnF ivcoN iek sLRysLt buwDI hY,
ijs dy shfry Auh hor jIvF nUM hI afpxy ihqF leI nhIN vrq lYNdf, sgoN kudrq dy smuwcy
vsIly AuhdIaF loVF pUrIaF krn leI sulB hn. mnuwK nUM sfrI isRsLtI df isrqfj
afiKaf jFdf hY, isrjnhfr dIaF cOhF KfxIaF ivcoN sB qoN Auqwm ikrq. guru rfmdfs ny
“avr join qyrI pinhfrI. ies DrqI mih qyrI iskdfrI.” afK ky AuhdI vizafeI
kIqI hY.2 ies jfmy ivc imlI qIKx sUJ bUJ sdkf iensfn Bly bury dI pihcfx kr
skdf hY.
asIN ieh mMndy hF ik srb smwrQ qF Auh iek prmfqmF hI hY pr kr gujLrnf bhuq
kuwJ iensfn dy hwQ ivc vI hY. jLmIn ivcoN kuwJ kwZxf afvsLk huMdf hY, kuwJ pfAuxf vI.
AuhIAu gwl mnuwKI jIvn dI hY. nfm df bIj Plx leI ivkfrF aqy Aus ivc sLIl, iKmf,
sMqoK, dieaf ivvyk aqy hlImI dI Kfd vI pfAuxI cfhIdI hY. sB df Blf socx ijhf
ivhfr prmfrQ dy sfDk leI AuvyN hY, ijvyN iksy rogI dy Aupcfr vjoN dvf Kfx dy nflnfl prhyj vjoN sucyq rihxf.
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ijdMgI df Auh suwcjf ZMg jIAux leI ijwQy awlg-awlg DrmF ny afpxy ivcfr idWqy hn,
AuWQy sB DrmF ivc iek gwl iPr sfJI hY qy Auh hY sdfcfr df atut gihrf sMbMD.
Drm df lksL jo vI hY, Auh cMgy sdfcfrk jIvn ibnF pRfpq nhIN kIqf jf skdf. ies
krky sMq-mhfqmf aqy gurU sfihbfn ny lokF nUM nfm jpx, pRBU dI pRymf BgqI dwsI, AuWQy
hI sdfcfrk jIvn dIaF AuWcIaF kdrF-kImqF nUM apxfAux leI vI ikhf.
asI ieh gwl mMndy hF ik jdoN asIN iksy nUM idloN ipafr krdy hF qF Aus dy guxF nUM
apxfAux dI vI koisLsL krdy hf. Ausy qrF jykr asIN Aus prmfqmF nUM ipafr krdy hF
qF sfzy aMdr vI Aus ijhy cMgy qy nyk gux af jfxy cfhIdy hn. asl ivc prmfqmf df
swcf Bgq jF ieh kih lvo ik gurU df swcf isWK AuhI hY ijhVf sbr aqy sMqoK nfl
jIvn ivc krm krdf hY, ieh nhIN krdf ik koeI vsqU nf pRfpq hox qy isLkvf jF
isLkfieq prmfqmf nUM kry, jo dUijaF nUM imilaf hY, Auh mYnUM ikAuN nhIN imilaf? ikAuNik
Aus df prmfqmf qy ienFH ivsLvfs huMdf hY ik Auh dyxhfr pRBU df hr Aus vsqU leI
sLukrfnf krdf hY, jo Aus nUM imlI hY qy Aus ipWCy doVdf nhIN, jo Aus nUM nhIN imlI.
gurbfxI ivc ies Bfv nUM pRgtfieaf igaf hY ik jo jLrUrq dIaF cIjF hn, AunFH leI
AuWdm krky vfihgurU awgy ardfs krnI cfhIdI hY ik Auh AunFH nUM pRdfn kry.
sMsfr dy sfry Drm jo hjLfrF sfl purfxy hn, mfnv leI smfijk qy aiDafqmk pRyrxf
df sroq hn. vwKo-vwKrIaF ivDIaF rfhIN, Aus krqf nfl aByd hox dI gwl krdy hn.
srIr qy afqmf dI suqMqr hoNd bfry pRsLn KVHy krdy hn, sMsfr nUM kdI duwKF df Gr
dwsdy hn, dyhI nUM qsIhy dyNdy hn, sMinafs rfhIN mukqI df mfrg Kojx leI Aupdys L
idMdy hn, pr isWK Drm vihmF-BrmF, AUc-nIc, jfq-pfq, rMg-nsl aqy ilMg vKryvyN
qoN AuWcf AuT ky, smuwcI mfnvqf dy Bly, ivsLv sLFqI aqy mfnvI eyky dI gwl krdf hY.
asIN ijnFH icr AUc-nIc aqy jfq-pfq dI ijlHx ivcoN nhIN inkl skdy, AunI dyr asIN
afpxy swcy Drm anusfr cwlx df dfavf nhIN kr skdy. isWK Drm, ihMdU Drm,
ieslfmI Drm jF koeI vI Drm ivwc jnm lYx nfl hI bMdf Aus Drm df nhIN bx jFdf,
Aus leI mnuwK nUM Drm dy shI isDFqF nUM aml ivwc ilafAuxf jLrUrI hY. asIN AunFH icr
dUijaf df drd mihsUs nhIN kr skdy ijnFH icr AunFH dI jgFH qy KVo ky nhIN dyKdy.
Bgq rivdfs ies gwl nUM bVy sucjy ZMg nfl bfxI rfhIN ies ibafn krdy hn:sO kq jfnY pIr prfeI.
jO ky aMqir drd nf pfeI.3
afm qOr qy ieh hI suixaf jFdf hY ik mYN iesfeI Drm df hF, mYN gurU gRMQ sfihb nUM
mMndf hF, mYN afiraf DrmI hF, mYN ihMdU Drm df mnuwK hF. nfmDfrI kOx huMdy hn? Auh
nhIN ijhVy afpxy-afpxy Drm df ivafiKafn krdy hn. nfmDfrI sLbd do sLbdf df
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sumyl hY. nfmDfrI df Bfv hY nfm df afDfr. ijhVf mnuwK nfm dy afDfr qy asUlF qy
isDFqf nUM mMndf hY, AuhI nfmDfrI hY.4 ijhVf mnuwK ieho ijhf jIvn jIAuNdf hY, Auh
aijhI pdvI nUM pf jFdf hY ik iek idn duinaf Aus dI syvf ivc hfijLr rihSdI hY. mYN
ieh kihxf cfhuMdI hF ik syvf krn vfly nUM hmysLf mfx imldf hY. bfxI ivc PLurmfn hY
ik:ijin syivaf iqin pfieaf mfnu.5
swcf qy suwcf jIvn jIAuxf, ikRq krnI, nfm jpxf qy vMz Ckxf, ieh sunihrI asUl hI
aslI nfmDfrI mnuwK dy hoxy cfhIdy hn. ieh sB krn leI jF asIN ieh kih leIey ik
aijhf jIvn jIAux leI swc dy rsqy AuWqy clxf jLrUrI hY. swc hmysLf siQr rihMdf hY
asl ivc prmfqmf df dUjf nF hI swc hY. mnuwKI jIvn kI hY? asIN ies gwl nUM cMgI
qrFH jfxdy hF ik Drm BfvyN koeI vI hovy pr sB df iek hI AudysL huMdf hY. Auh kI hY prm suwK jF mflk dI pRfpqI. Auh mflk sB df rwb hY, jo rwb nUM mMndy hn, AuhnF df
vI qy jo rwb nUM nhIN mMndy AuhnF df vI. BgqF dy idl ivc sB df pRym huMdf hY. hjLrq
mUsf dy pfs iek afdmI afieaf jwd Kfxf Kfx bYTy qF Aus afdmI ny rwb nUM Xfd nf
kIqf. mUsf dy idl ivc Aus leI iGRxf afeI, qF Aus nUM afvfjL afeI “aY mUsf! sB nUM mYN
Kfxf idSdf hF, qUM Aus nUM nPLrq krdf hY.” koeI afsqk hovy jF nfsqk, sB nfl
aijhIaF hsqIaF ipafr krdIaF hn qy loV pYx pr BfvyN sB lok AuhnF qoN mUMh moV
lYx pr Auh AuhnF dI syvf krn qoN nhIN tldIaF. Auh mhFpurK vyKdy hn ik sB Aus
mflk dy bwcy hn, BfvyN Auh Aus nUM nf vI pCfxdy hox.6
Auh prmfqmf sB jIvF, kI afsqk qy kI nfsqk, sB nfl pRym krdy hn. Auh jfxdy
hn ik sB ieko jfq qoN pYdf hoey hn, ies leI sB iek srIr dy aMg hn. sLyK PLrId
sfihb kihMdy hn ik jykr qYnUM pRIqm dy imlx dI iswk hY qF iksI df ihrdf nf
duKfeIN:jy qAu iprIaf dI isk ihafAu n Tfhy khIdf.
mnuwK Auh hY jo mnuwKI duwK-drd vMzfey, idl ivc drd rwKy, mflk qy Aus dI pYdf kIqI
isRsLtI leI pRym rwKy. jdoN asIN iehnF dI QF eIrKf, vYr-ivroD, nPLrq, dusLmxI,
lflc, cugl-KorI, hTDrmI afid burfieaf rwKFgy qF asIN shI arQF ivc mnuwK nhIN
ho skdy. sfzy idl df sLIsLf qF sfPL ho hI nhIN skdf. iehnF avguxF dy huMdIaF qF
iensfn dy jIvn ivcoN KusLI qy imTfs AuWz jFdI hY. iensfnIaq dy sB gux Dfrn krky
swc dI kmfeI, sB nfl muwhbq, ipafr qy hmdrdI df vrqfAu rwKxf cfhIdf hY. sB
jIv Aus ieko ipqf dy bwcy hn, ies krky sfzy Brf hn:-
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eyku ipqf eyks ky hm bfirk qU myrf gurhfeI.
prmfqmf qy Aus dI pYdfiesL nfl ipafr df gux ijMnFH vwDygf AunFH hI iensfn Aus
mflk dy nyVy huMdf jFdf hY. sB iek nUr qoN Aupjy hn qy sBnF dy aMdr Auh nUr hI cmk
irhf hY iPr kOx mMdF jF cMgf hY. iksy PLkIr ny ikMnF suMdr ikhf hY ik aY idl qUM idlF
dI prkrmF kr, kfabf qF hjLrq iebrfhIm ny bxfieaf sI pr ieh idl Aus rwb ny
bxfieaf hY. ijLSdgI qoN vwDky koeI dOlq nhIN, aYsI ijLSdgI ijs ivc pRym qy KusLI dIaF
qfkqF BrpUr hn. Auh iensfn sB qoN vwD dOlqmMd hY ijsny afpxI ijLSdgI nUM pUrn
kr ilaf hY.
sMq-mhfqmF iensfn dI rihxI bihxI nUM CyVdy nhIN. Auh kihSdy hn ik ijvyN qusIN
rihxf cfhuMdy ho rho pr iek gwl nf Buwlo ik qusIN iensfn ho. quhfzf pihrfvf quhfzI
iensfnIaq ivc PLrk nhIN pFAuNdf. sB qoN pihlF iensfn bxoN qy sB nfl afpsI
BfeI-cfry vflf Bfv rwKo. sosfietI jF smfj dI gLrjL quhfnUM iensfn bxfAux dI huMdI
hY. awj mnuwK cMgF qy afdrsLk jIvn kuJ asUlF nUM apxf ky jIa skdf hY, Auh hn
iksy nUM mfVf nf kihxf, iKmf sMqoK Dfrn krnf, prfieaf hwk nf lYxF, swcI-sucI ikrq
krnf afid hn. iensfn leI ieko afdrsL hI sB qoN pihlf, Aus dy sfhmxy hY, Auh
iek pUrn iensfn bxn df hY. asIN pUrn afdrsLk iensfn bx jfn qF Auh hI
rUhfnIaq df nmUnf hY.
bfxI sMsfr ivc vI aijhy mfnv df ibafn kIqf igaf hY ijhVf iek gRihsQI hY aqy
gRihsQ ivc rih ky hI Auh afpxy ivkfrF qy kfbU pfAuxf isWKdf hY. ieh mnuwK nYiqk
muwlF vflf hY aqy jfxdf hY ik sdgux hI pRBU pRfpqI dy rfh dI pihlI pOVI hY. srwbq
df Blf mMgx nfl hI mnuwKI brfbrqf df aihsfs huMdf hY. awh klH dy dihsLq Bry Xuwg
ivc rMg-nsl, luwt-Ksuwt aqy jLulm rihq smfj dI klpnf krn lwigaF, Bgq kbIr
dy ies nUrI sMdysL nUM mn ivc vsfAuxf jLrUrI hY:eyk nUr qy sBu jgu AupjIaf kAun Bly ko mMdy ||
ijs mn ivc sdf sfVf qy ierKf dI awg bldI rhy, sdf vYr -ivroD aqy kRoD df BFbV
hI mwicaf rhy, Auh sLrIr iks qrFH arog rih skdf hY? gurU arjn dyv PLurmFAudy hn
ik rwb dy rfh qy qurdf hY, Aus dI icMqf muwk jFdI hY aqy ahMkfr imt jFdf hY. Dfrimk
jIvn df jy ieh PLl pRfpq nhIN hoieaf qF asIN aslI Drm nUM smiJaf nhIN. iek swcf
qy imhnqI, inrCl pursL sB df mn ijWq lYNdf hY ijsny afpxy sfQIaF df ieqbfr
pRfpq kr ilaf, Aus ny pdfrQk AunwqI df pihlf pVfAu qih kr ilaf hY. asl gwl
ieh hY ik BfvyN ivakqIgq AunwqI hovy, pMQk jF iPr kOmI, sB df inrBr AunFH mnuwKF dy
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afcrx, sOc dI AuWcqf qy huMdf hY. jykr hr iek ivakqI afpxf afcrx AuWcf kry qF
pMQ, kOm jF ieh kih lvo ik dysL df nF AuWcf ho jFdf hY. jdoN asIN afp Bly bx jFvfgy
qF sMsfr df nksLf hI bdl jfvygf. ijvyN BfeI gurdfs afpxI bfxI ivc ibafn krdy
hn:afip Blf sBu jgu Blf, Blf Blf sBnf kir dyKY.
afip burf sBu jgu burf, sB ko burf bury dy lyKY.
sdfcfrI jIvn dI mMg kyvl mfnv qoN hI kIqI jFdI hY. mfnv jIvn durwlB hY bVy
XqnF bfad imilaf hY ies leI ies jIvn df siqkfr kridaF ies nUM shI kMmf ivc
lgfAuxf cfhIdf hY.sLuB krm, sLuB bol, sLuB ivhfr, sLuB aml hI asl ivc nYiqk muwl
hn aqy sfry DrmF ivc iehI iek buinafdI mhwqv vflI gwl hY.
syNt pfl PLrmfAuNdy hn ik sB mjLHbF ivc afdrsLk iensfnF dI hI pUjf pRvfn kIqI
geI hY., Auh mflk nfl aByd hn qy dunIaf awgy Aus aivnfsLI pRBU df hI afdrsL
rKwdy hn.7iensfn dIaF jLrUrqF Gwt hn qy Aus df QoVy ivc vI gujLfrf ho skdf hY pr
sfrI Aumr Auh vfsLnfvF dy ipWCy lwgf rihMdf hY, ijMnFH krky Aus nUM hr smyN bycYnI,
asLFqI aqy pRysLfnI df hI sfhmxf krnf pYNdf hY. hr vsqU nUM pRfpq krn leI mnuwK nUM
imhnq, nyk inXm aqy sMXm pRfpq krn dI loV hY. afsf dI vfr ivc ijWQy pihly gurU
Gwt Kfx dI gwl krdy hn, AuWQy bfbf PLrId bhuq sfdy afhfr dI ivafiKaf krdy hn.
Auh kihMdy hn:ruKI suKI Kfie kY TMZf pfxI pIAu.|
PrIdf dyiK prfeI copVI nf qrsfey jIAu||
mnuwK ies dunIaF ivc iek bVf kImqI KLjfnf hY. sonf, cFdI, hIry-jvfhrfq jo iensfn
vrqdf hY, ieh sB kImqI nhIN sgoN iehnFH nUM vrqx vflf Auh Kud kImqI hY. awj dy
smyN Auh iensfn sB qoN vwD dOlqmMd hY ijsny afpxI ijLMdgI nUM pUrn kr ilaf hY.
aYsIaF hsqIaF hI sfrI dunIaf dy AuDfr df kfrn bxdIaF hn. dunIafvI cIjF dI
KUbsUrqI awgy quwC njLr afAuNdIaF hn. aijhf mnuwK hr smyN ivc pRvfn hY, AudoN vI sI
awj vI hY qy kwlH nUM vI rhygf.
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hvfly aqy itpwxIaF
1[ gurmq sfr, rfDfsuafmI siqsMg ibafs, pMnf-72
2[ aMimRq nfm, mihMdr isMG josLI, rfDf suafmI siqsMg ibafs, pMnf-15
3[ vrqmfn ihSdusqfn(mfsk) nvIN idWlI-15, zf[ gurnfm isMG(XU[ky) pMnf-11
4[ jn sfihq(meI-jUn-julfeI 2008) BfsLf
5[ gurU gRMQ sfihb, m:1, pMnf-2
6[ gurmq sfr, rfDf suafmI siqsMg ibafs, pMnf-21
7[ gurmq sfr, rfDf suafmI siqsMg ibafs, pMnf-25
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